Today is a crisp, cold Autumn day. The idea of a warm cup of tea and a good book appeals to me more than following through on a promise, but my children have elephant memories and alligator tears. I admit to being slightly disgruntled as we bundle into sweatshirts and rubber boots. “Mama, I needs a snack,” says the wee one, and I hustle up yogurt raisins and 2 chocolate cookies for each boy. ‘Mama needs that cup tea,’ I am thinking.
Too many moments later, our family of four is strapped in to the car and heading for the wooded trail that circles the lake. The car window is open a crack and the sound of a cold wind in the trees whistles by my ear. The smell of wood burning and Pumpkin Spice tea tickles my nose. It is the sound and smell of Fall.
I lower the passenger mirror, that less than a decade ago I used to touch up my make-up on our way to a dinner party. Now, I use it to spy on the munchkins in the backseat. They are both looking out the windows, watching brightly costumed trees sway in the wind that whips across the lake. The older one, already 7, draws his brother’s attention toward something across the water. “Mama,” says the wee one, the baby sound in his voice growing more distant with each week in pre-school, “all dose colors is so bee-u-ti-ful.” He smiles at me in the mirror, knowing that I am watching him as he watches the scenery.
I glance at his brother, who grins also, displaying a large gap where one front tooth is missing. Freckles, a remnant from warm summer days, scatter across his nose and the wind slips in through the barely open window, ruffling the strawberry blond hair that falls on his forehead.
I shift my gaze from the backseat to my own reflection. A few wrinkles have wound their way around the edges, but my eyes still sparkle and smile. There is still silliness, and sexiness, and mystery within. Sometimes I wonder if this life we have built is real – it is too sweet, and painful, and full of love to truly be.
He parks the car outside a chainlink fence where a gravelled path winds its way into the woods. The colors and the sun are so bright here. We both get out. There is a moment, so very brief, where it is just him and I, the wind and the trees, and we catch each others eye. The corner of my mouth turns up slightly and his eyes twinkle. It is the closest thing we have to a Caribbean cruise for two. The muffled sound of the boys calling for me makes its way out of the window crack and we disembark and return to land. We each help a boy out of his seat and make sure coats are zipped and hats are on.
In one palm is a steaming cup of spiced tea, in the other a small hand. And it feels so good to have hands and a heart that are full. We carefully make our way around the fence, despite signs that insist we shouldn’t, using a well worn path in the grass. Once on the other side, the boys take off as if the wind that ruffles the leaves has lifted their wings. And hubby and I are alone, sort of. Wild boys bark and bay at a distance. And together, the four of us, we wander this trail with hearts and hand full.